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Introduction
The Differences Between Girl/Girl & Lesbian for Lesbian

This website is primarily intended for women who are looking for genuine, sexually explicit lesbian focused websites & material made by women for women.
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Why?However there is also a world of difference in appearance between the average woman whatever her sexual orientation and many of the women who are currently at the top of the mainstream adult industry league - these are women who have often undergone an extreme fantasy makeover.

To attempt to make generalizations about porn is to stand on very shaky ground indeed. Women who look like
real women and don't choose to undergo the various body modifications that constitute an "extreme fantasy makeover " can do very well indeed. Often referred to as "amateurs" these women can find great success & make lots of money in porn .It is really all a matter of finding the right market - many men don't like fake boobs anymore than most lesbians do..

Not only is there a big difference in how the modern stereotypical pornstar who does girl/girl (they nearly all do) looks; there are often many differences in how they make love to each other as well. Finger-fucking is now being shown a lot more in "mainstream" lesbian porn but is often referred to as "fisting", an expression that some lesbian's find off-putting, or just inaccurate because of the level of penetration shown.

Because most "Lesbian Porn" websites that belong to what can be referred to as "mainstream" adult entertainment , regardless of whether the sex is for real or not & regardless of who owns the site & operates it, are made with a predominately male audience in mind. Consequently, while some lesbians & many bisexual women & even straight women, can still derive enjoyment from these sites, they tend to leave many lesbians feeling dissatisfied & somewhat cheated.

Men, in general, love looking at lesbian imagery. This is a simple fact of life. It is firmly implanted in their nature. And it is really quite silly to get dismayed, cross or pissed-off about it. Just as silly as getting upset with your pet cat when she refuses to become vegetarian & starts pining for a piece of meat. But what this male obsession means is that nearly all "Lesbian Porn", also known as girl/girl, for the most part features women who are bisexual (at least to a degree) rather than lesbian. And there is a world of difference between a bisexual/pansexual pornstar & the average lesbian on the street, or the bus, or her bike, in her car or wherever she happens to find herself at the time.

But as I have already implied it is dangerous to generalize about porn, or more accurately it is very invidious. You can find fisting sex (lesbian and otherwise) in porn if you make it your business to look. It is probably a lot more common than tribadism - a uniquely lesbian sex act that has no true equivalent in heterosexual or gay male sex. If you check our free sample galleries for Abby Winters.Com you will find pictures of several couples enjoying tribadism. Oral sex, playing with sextoys, using strap-ons and a bit of fingering remain the firm favourite sex acts with the bi-femmes who perform in gilr/girl - all activities that they could also engage in with men. It is also very rare for instance, to find butch-looking dykes featuring in this kind of "mainstream" porn because they are probably considered, rightly or wrongly, to be unattractive to men.

In the past this meant explicit material featuring butch lesbians was very difficult, if not impossible to find. And not a few lesbians, who, when feeling the need for some "Gay" porn, found themselves turning to gay male porn in preference to the often fake-boobed, bleached blondes, in high-heels, stockings & suspenders doing a bit of girl-on-girl action type of women who tend to be predominate in so much "Lesbians for Men" porn. The guys weren't dykes, but at least they were Gay & looked & acted Gay! However currently approx. 50% of the men appearing in American made Gay porn claim to be straight & that they do it because it pays much better than straight porn where the women get paid a lot more than the men. It seems to me that men generally find it harder to come out as "bi" than women do.

To complicate matters still further, some, though not most, of the performers in mainstream lesbian porn are not actually bisexual or approximately so, they are lipstick lesbians who dress and behave in a very "feminine" manner. However despite their homosexual orientation they are still happy to perform for men, who of course find them hugely attractive and very erotic. This tends to send out a very confused message to other lesbians who find it hard to believe these women can really be lesbian because they are doing this. It is also often pretty much impossible to tell who is bi & who is lesbian in this situation, because bisexual porn actresses generally don't appear to object to being called lesbians. And clearly this lack of definition matters a lot to some gay women & can sometimes lead to them making the mistake of labeling bi females & lipstick lesbians as "straight", which of course they are not.

Here is an interesting link from a lipstick lesbian who has clearly had problems being accepted for what she is by other lesbians and had to endure oppressive attitudes from some people who should know better. But why on earth shouldn't a bisexual woman go to a lesbian bar or club, especially if she is going through a "girlie" phase, anyway?

Now the Internet & the massive decrease in the cost of associated audio-visual technologies are helping to change things. And recent years have seen not only a wonderful blossoming of genuine lesbian-for-lesbian erotica, but also a vast increase in the number of women in general who are enjoying female friendly erotic material of all kinds. Going online, turning off the family filter & exploring the "Adult" regions of the web, is after all much, much safer than venturing on your own, into a traditional, back-street Sex Shop, which may well not be stocking quite what your looking for anyway.

All human beings are sexual beings. Celebrate & rejoice in your sexuality.
It is every bit as much your equal right, if you desire it, to enjoy sexually explicit lesbian erotica as any other right that has ever been claimed in the name of women's liberation.

More Thoughts & Observations

As I have mentioned above some lesbians find they much prefer gay male porn to girl/girl & there may indeed be some lesbians who would still find they prefer it to the lesbian for lesbian sites that we list & promote on this site! And although it might be even more surprising to some, there are also lesbians who have a preference for straight hardcore porn. It should not be overlooked that for many people regardless of their base sexual orientation or their chosen sexual orientation, porn is pure fantasy. It may be that a lesbian who enjoys straight hardcore like to imagine herself the man fucking his horny bitch - this maybe part of the attraction anyway. Certainly men who are stimulated by Girl/Girl often like to fantasize that they are lesbians - they may firmly believe as well that a woman is the best, most satisfying lover for another woman, that she can do a better job than any man can. Much girl/girl porn shamelessly plays with this idea. The man who has these fantasies can be completely straight in his orientation. You could even say that he loves women so much he wants to be one, a lesbian one.

Other people want porn that directly relates to them and what they do in real life. May be a more exciting version of what they do in real life but still in keeping with their sexual orientation. As I also mentioned above there are a large number of men who claim to be straight who perform in American "Gay" porn. Whether or not people choose to believe them, it is worth pointing out that being genuinely in love with a person of the opposite sex does not mean you are "straight". Oscar Wilde was genuinely loving toward his wife & they had two children together. However Wilde also had very strong homosexual urges that tragically led to his appalling downfall due the absurd homophobic prejudices that held sway in Victorian Britain.

There is now a growing movement among gay men who are not happy with "gay for pay" pornstars. It may have been fun & novel at first but now it is getting stale. They want gay for gay porn just as many lesbians want lesbian for lesbian.

On the issue of porn & pure fantasy. People who are actively involved in the BDSM scene can be logically expected to be stimulated by BDSM pornography. If they are not then it would not be unreasonable to assume their interest in the scene was a purely financial one. Many people who will never go there in reality or very stimulated by BDSM porn. Many men who would like to be a woman's slave express frustration with the fact that they cannot find a woman that is genuinely sexually dominate - a true dominatrix. They can only find women who play the part for money. Some sexologists have opined that women who are truly dominant are for the most part lesbians. However many people who are on the BDSM scene for real will tell you the gender of the other person is not that relevant to them - what is important is whether they can be a top to their bottom or vice versa. By this token a woman who is essentially lesbian and also genuinely dominant can derive great personal pleasure from BDSM activity with a male submissive. Indeed she can use her lesbianism to taunt and tease him all the more.

Ah me the mysteries of sexuality & the human psyche.